Akothee revealed she has been in therapy for 10 years to help her cope with certain difficulties from her past. Now that she is stronger, she says she won’t let bad energy ruin her aura.
It has not been simple for Akothee to cope with a baby daddy who wasn’t helpful during her difficult times, and with family members who believe they are entitled to a share of her riches, now that she is wealthy.
“Now I know I am not the problem. For a long time, I have fallen a victim to the hands of mean family members,I have always been the first one to say sorry even when they are on the wrong, wait, it didn’t take a week before I was crying again hurting again,” said Akothee.
Akothee said her family members are well-known takers and if they are not given what they want, the relationship deteriorates. Like if she doesn’t complete and meets all of their needs, there will be bad blood.
“It took me 10 years of therapy, crying and trying to figure out what else can I do then I realized Ooh Esther takers have no shame, givers must create boundaries today I can tell you for free, I have blocked doors to even the closest family member, people I thought I couldn’t do without, people I educated and seen through the life and I don’t feel guilty about it. I am at peace and happiness,” says Akothee.
But the mother of five, who is now 40, has discovered that she owes no one anything—not even her own children! No one can guilt-trip her now that she is aware of this, even if it means becoming an enemy.
“At 40 I can’t afford to lose my sleep over lost envy in the name of rivalry. There is no rivalry call it jealousy period We can be in a family gathering and I don’t get carried away by the fact that ooh we are together, shit, I suffered and not going back. No hello, no nothing, not even them attending to forget about my wedding but even my burial” Akothe resolutely declared.
