A digital storm erupted on Kenyan social media this week after popular content creator Director Trevor claimed that controversial podcaster Andrew Kibe reached out to him privately, asking for help-only to later delete the messages.
Trevor made the revelation in a post shared by Nairobi Gossip Club on Instagram. “Andrew Kibe is in my DM asking for my help,” the post read. “Then deleted the messages.”
While Trevor did not disclose the nature of the request, the post quickly attracted attention online, prompting a flurry of public reactions—some supportive, others sceptical.
Celebs React: “Men Suffer in Silence”
Radio presenter and politician Felix Odiwuor, known as Jalang’o, weighed in, urging empathy for men who seek help quietly. “When a man comes to you for help, if you can, help. If you can’t, say no. Don’t expose,” Jalang’o commented. “This is why most men die in silence… What will they think about me? Anyway, Happy Men’s Mental Health Month.”
Fellow comedian Terence Creative offered a more proactive response: “Kindly send me his number. I’m willing to help. People like him are very instrumental in our industry. They keep the entertainment scene alive.”
Terence’s gesture drew praise from fans, with one user writing, “I love how positive-minded you are. You’re my G.”
But not everyone was convinced. Some critics questioned why such a private matter was made public. “Why not DM Trevor directly instead of posting it here?” one follower asked. Another added, “Jumping in so fast with sympathy… clout chasing?”
Context Behind the Drama
Andrew Kibe, a former radio host turned digital commentator, is no stranger to controversy. Known for his blunt views on relationships, gender roles, and celebrity culture, he has both loyal followers and fierce critics. While it’s not yet clear what prompted his alleged message to Trevor, fans speculate it may involve personal or financial struggles.
Neither Kibe nor Trevor has offered further clarification since the story broke.
A Bigger Conversation on Men’s Mental Health
Despite the online noise, the incident has opened up a wider conversation-particularly about how men seek help and how society responds. In a country where mental health is still a sensitive topic, the public nature of this incident struck a nerve.
“Sometimes, it’s not about who said what,” said one Nairobi-based therapist. “It’s about the fact that men are finally reaching out-and what we do when they do.”
For now, the conversation continues online, with opinions split. But one thing is clear: in the age of digital fame, even a deleted message doesn’t disappear quietly.
