When the Lady Makes the First Move in a Relationship

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Once a lady is the first to openly express her feelings towards a man, there is a 95% chance that she genuinely likes him and not just his platinum card.

Ever since the skies were blue, men have always been the first to make the move on a girl. You find an attractive lady sitting around just minding her business, you poke her to see how invested she’ll get and before you know it, she is Mrs. Kinuthia.

That is tradition. However, with a change of technology and eras, some women are getting the ultimate courage of pursuing a man.

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These days, it is not uncommon for a lady to make the first move in the relationship

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Even when there is so much debate around this, you have got to admit, there are some advantages of Jennifer showing interest first.

  • She is genuinely interested.

Trust that no woman will stick around a man without having an agenda, whatever it is. So, if she openly declares her attraction to you, she is most likely just attracted to you. No hidden agendas. That is what men are looking for; genuine connections. (Most of them at least)

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  • Maybe you are taking too long

Playing hard to get is nice until it is not. When a woman likes a man, she will present herself for the chase.

However, when he does not seem to read the room, there is no other choice for her but to take the bull by the horns. You know what they say about desperate times calling for desperate measures.

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When you take too long, she might just turn the tables and become the predator
  • She sees potential, probably.

Women hate wasting time generally. So, imagine Jenny who has been hitting rock bottom when it comes to men. She finally meets one who is an embodiment of peace, stability and does a lot without doing too much. Trust that she will stick her claws out ready to hunt.

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At the end of the day, there is nothing wrong with a woman shooting her shot. It does not emasculate a man as many would think. Women should just be careful as they do this, to avoid overstepping or chasing the guy away when they are supposed to be doing the opposite.

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