Relationships can be very sweet and memorable at the very beginning. The fact still remains it is not a very easy journey to walk. Protecting the bond, cultivating a good culture, molding each other, and creating safe spaces for each other.
Are you struggling or wondering why things are changing just two months into the relationship?
Here are a few things that kill many relationships vibes:
Lack of communication. If you can’t talk to your partner about your feelings, needs, and wants, the relationship will eventually crumble. Most people will resort to silence which is a wrong idea to preserve their relationship, which eventually drains both of them and dies.
Controlling behavior. If your partner tries to control you or your life, it’s a major red flag. This type of behavior is often a sign of underlying insecurity or abuse. This applies to both gender when two people are secure about themselves and their values. It makes the relationship grow with a great bond.
Lack of intimacy. Intimacy is an important part of any relationship. If you’re not feeling physically or emotionally close to your partner, it can be a major source of stress and tension. Lack of intimacy can make two people argue and feel insecure especially if their love language is touch.
Unrealistic expectations. If you have unrealistic expectations for your partner, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. No one is perfect, and your partner is not going to be able to meet all of your needs all of the time.
Negativity. If your partner is always negative and complaining, it can be really draining. No one wants to be around someone who is always bringing them down. Be careful about such, it is only a sign that they are not ready for life.
Physical or emotional abuse. Any form of abuse is a major red flag in a relationship. If your partner is physically or emotionally abusive, it’s important to get help and end the relationship
Trust issues. If you don’t trust your partner, it’s going to be very difficult to have a healthy relationship. You’ll always be suspicious of their actions and words, and you’ll never be able to relax and enjoy being with them.
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Passive-aggressive behavior. Passive-aggressive behavior is a way of communicating your anger or frustration indirectly. It’s often more hurtful than direct communication, and it can damage the relationship.
Jealousy. A little bit of jealousy is normal, but if it’s excessive, it can be toxic for a relationship.
Lack of respect. If your partner doesn’t respect you, it’s going to be very difficult to have a healthy relationship.
Remember relationship is not about the vibe alone, there is more to individual growth, understanding, values, and chemistry.
Love is a beautiful thing. The above-mentioned things can be discussed and sorted with the willingness to change and be better.
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