Many often get the wrong perception on why women play hard to get, even if the guy showing interest in them is ultimately her type.
Playing hard to get may make the guy lose interest in the girl they are pursuing, and conversely women too will assume the guy is a quitter, since he gives up easily, but believe it or not there are some valid reasons that justify why a woman plays hard to get. The following are some.
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Showing that they are not easy.
Many women might like the guy but would like them to understand that she does not just agree with any and every man or an idea of a relationship.
Some men, find this attractive and thi encourages them to pursue further. However, if the woman is still playing hard to get after the man has shown effort, he may lose interest totally.
To access the man
Women would want to know you before dating you. Jumping into a relationship without knowing the person you are dealing with can be risky.
Some women have discovered that their men are married to other women and they are the side chick, while others acquire some disturbing illnesses because the man is sexually active with other women.
Sexually Transmitted infections prevalence makes most women who are mindful of themselves to take their time to dig out on the man’s sexual character before getting into a relationship.
This gives a woman a chance to protect themselves from ingenuine men who are ill-intentioned. Besides that, women also like to find out more about the man before giving in, as they say you don’t give your power away unless sure.
Afraid of rejection
Some women have been rejected once or twice, the psychological trauma gained from the past experience resulting in retraction.
As some women got rejected in the most humiliating ways, for instance in public causing embarrassment. They would not want that to happen to them again hence they play hard to get.
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