Pleasing women can be the hardest job any man has to do before it even starts to pay off. So if you have one shot, you better do it right.
Women are tough. That’s right. They want things done a certain way, they want to do things at the time they have stipulated and without fail. Don’t believe it? Just look at our moms. In the same way, there are things they like to hear from men, be it about how they look good or have soft skin; whatever it is, it appeals to them. When the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, the way to a woman’s heart beside her wallet is through her ears.
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Here are some things women like to hear from men:
- ‘You are smart’
It is every woman’s dream (almost) to be told that they are smart. No woman out here wants her man to take them for a bimbo who is just good for the eyes. Tell her that she’s smart, or better yet, go to her for little pieces of advice now and then. It’ll make her feel special.
- ‘You smell great
Nothing beats this compliment. Women take time to look good and smell even better. So, it is a shame if the one guy who is supposed to notice is too slow. She may let it go, but somehow, it will come to bite you in the face.
- ‘Your skin is so soft
Look, women spend a lot on skin care products, okay? Imagine buying a whole compartment of body scrubs and essential oils, only for you to not say anything about it. She will kill you and to be honest, you deserve to die. Women love it when they see that the efforts they put in to ensure they have fresh, beautiful young skin are appreciated.
- ‘You are so creative’
Yeah, it could be a stretch. Compliment her anyway. Women like the feeling that they can be recognized for their creativity especially because they are stereotyped to be uncreative. You know that popular saying your girlfriends say, “sasa utafanya?” it boosts their confidence when they are complimented for brainstorming out-of-this-world ideas.
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- ‘You are stunning’
It is one thing to tell a woman she is hot and it is another thing altogether to tell her that she is beautiful. Women are bearers of so many unspoken insecurities. That assurance that she is gorgeous even without makeup does the trick. Do that and you will be a happy man.
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These daughters of Eve can be a handful when it comes to good language, but they are just looking for a little sugar. So, don’t be afraid to give it to them.
